Intimacy is a fundamental human need. 
It is NOT optional. 

We need to feel closeness. 
We need to be known, seen and loved for who we are. 

We have a deep desire to feel connected, 
at a mental, emotional and soul level. 
This is better than sex. Yes, for men too. 

Unfortunately, most of us don't get to this level.
We learn behaviors that
Push people away, or close ourselves off.
We become a barrier to experiencing deep intimacy.
Or we become used to superficial levels of closeness.

All of this is very well explained in 

"Fear of Intimacy and how to overcome it" by Teal Swan

https://tealswan.com/resources/articles/the-fear-of-intimacy-how-to-overcome-the-fear-of-intimacy-r267/

Please read or watch on youtube! 

If you think, you don't fear intimacy, think again.
This is a sincere invitation to evaluate the meaning of intimacy..
.. and the possibilities of how far and deep your intimate experiences can be.

If you're like most people, you may realize 
You didn't even know what intimacy looks like, or feels like! 

Its never too late to open yourself to..
Genuine Deep Authentic intimacy
Whether you have to create it from scratch..
Or deepen the intimacy you already share with people.


#ConnectionSeekers #DeepIntimacy

Woman!!! I'm going through this as we speak and I have to be honest with myself how I fear intimacy and to be emotionally seen by others by God and of course by myself.. I avoid it at all cost. Makes me uncomfortable but today I tried... It's not easy. 

Bianca you are not alone in this, I can relate! It took me years to open up, and I still continue to notice the barriers and lovingly work with them. Not easy at all friend.