Discover the Transformative Power of My “Deflect, Reflect, Select” Communication Method

I invite you to explore a transformative strategy to maintain your composure in the various spheres of life – be it emotions, conversations, or relationships. This isn't just a method; it's a journey I embarked on some 20 to 30 years ago, and it has gracefully stood the test of time.

Let's delve into the three pivotal steps of this journey: Deflect, Reflect, and Select.

Deflect:  Imagine yourself surrounded by a dome of indestructible Teflon, where words and emotions glide off without leaving a trace. When confronted with words or situations, allow them to gracefully deflect off you. They don't stick or trigger; they don't linger. They simply bounce away, leaving you unscathed.

Reflect: This is where the heart of the process lies. Give yourself the gift of time and thought. Ponder over the situation, weighing your options with care and consideration. This isn't a hurried step; it's a thoughtful pause, one that can last a single second or stretch out to a day or two. Each situation demands its unique span of reflection, deeply influenced by its significance.

Select: Only after traversing through the first two steps, approach this final stage. Here, you judiciously choose your response, tailor-made for the situation at hand. It's a considered, well-thought-out reaction that aligns perfectly with the circumstances.

This three-step approach has been my compass in navigating life's complex maze. It has been instrumental in steering clear of unnecessary conflicts while simultaneously representing clients, paving the way for successful million-dollar deals.

I invite you to embrace this three-step journey. Try it out. It's not just a strategy; it could be a transformative experience that reshapes your interactions and, indeed, your life.

Mitch 

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