When you read my posts, what do you think and/or feel? Do you feel and think resistance? "You think I am stupid." "You have something against me." "You are negative." Do you think negative things about me? "You always know everything better." Or do your thoughts make all kinds of excuses? Yes, but...  "That's too easy, my situation is different, I need something else."  "Yes but I can do that already." Yes but, I don't need you for that". "Yes, but...."

It's the voice in your head that likes to keep you where you are. The voice in your head that tests how strong you are and whether you really want it. That little bit of resistance you get, makes you give up right away. Because staying where you are is far too comfortable. It saves you time and energy, and doing what you should do is confrontational and "negative". Like wanting only sweets and no medicines. It's actually childish.

Life is not abracadabra. Your business doesn't need idiotically expensive training or courses that have yet to be invented to become successful. Because that makes you feel like you are something, that you matter, that you exist. Because you don't get that from ordinary things anymore. Because you are already too far away from that.

Why are so many people and businesses failing in 2024?
Because they know very well how to make a quick post on Facebook, but have no idea how to write a text and communicate. Because they know perfectly well how to order pizza, but have no idea how to peel an orange. Because they know all about payment methods, exchange rates and the lowest interest rates, but don't know how to make a financial overview in Excel. 

Because people know very well how to send photos, videos or emoticons. But have no idea how they can say, that you're doing something wrong. How they can say that they are having a shitty day. How they can say that something you said hurt them, but that you are right. Or how they can say that they don't know how to do something and if you can help them. Or anything else very common and very simple.  And very human.

It's great that you can "play expert" in something, with quick and easy tools in 2024. But it has caused us to skip the basic skills, the foundation you inevitably need. And then you get things that look great on the outside, that impress, that look amazing, but collapse in a short time. You can't build something without a good foundation. Whether you want to or not. Nice that you want everything quick and easy, but no matter how hard you try, in the end you will always fall flat on your face. 

With all the "quick and easy" tools and tricks, we get further and further away from ourselves and increasingly skip the basics, the foundation. Because good communication, good relationships, good networking, developing a good business, it all takes time and effort. In 2024, time and effort is what we no longer want. So everything that takes time and effort, the things that really matter, we remove. Because that's faster, that's easier. 

Right. Where did you think you were going faster and easier? To the top? Or to the bottom of the well? I mean. If it really all worked as the wonderful stories (sales tricks) promise you, the world would look and function much, much, much better right now. But that is not the case. Things are worse than ever in many areas.

What you need is just those "stupid dumb" basic skills. You just need to learn to communicate well again. (Isn't that what irritates you most in contact with others, poor communication?). And you just need to learn to work properly and effeciently again. Quality over quantity.  You just have to learn to make a financial overview again, so you know what you are doing and can make good choices. And so on.

All these modern things, are castles in the air. It looks great on the outside, but it is an empty shell. In the end, it always comes down to basic skills whether or not you achieve your goals.

All that resistance you feel when you read my posts, all those excuses you make in your mind, are only because you find it hard to face reality. Because it's uncomfortable to work on yourself and discover the simple things you've been doing wrong for years. It's logical and understandable that you do everything you can to deny and convince yourself that you don't need that. That very fact is a sign that you do need it. 

But feel free to continue ignoring me. Feel free to continue with all the negative comments towards me. One day you will realise that you are just wasting your time, energy and money, just to avoid doing what you should be doing. 

You could also -yesterday already- have made an appointment with me and started learning and improving your basic skills. Then you might have experienced the first results and benefits already today.

I wish you a nice day. 

If you think I'm right and this is a good post. Maybe I deserve that you visit my website, send me a nice email and/or that you give it a try and make an appointment to learn and/or improve basic skills from me. No excuses.

https://kaiehuset.no/ - info@kaiehuset.no