Founder at Kaiehuset.no

If I make you feel uncomfortable... know that that has nothing to do with me. I am very kind, strict but fair, smart, helpful etc. If you met me, it wouldn't occur to you to think negatively about me. People are more likely to find me "too nice" than negative in any way. But you have made your world so small, that you experience the smallest things negatively, that the smallest things pull you out of your comfort zone. Looking at yourself and your own behavior is uncomfortable at first. It is understandable that you would prefer to avoid that and that you then react negatively to avoid it. That you are ashamed and say negative things to me to avoid the feeling. I see you, I know exactly why...